Category: Happiness Coaching

4 SUCCESS Blocks you MUST remove

NLP LIFE COACHING for RAPID RESULTS

Everyone has the potential to improve, progress, achieve and succeed. How you feel about your dreams and potential depends on the following:

1. Identity

If you can’t see or identify with your change, you are standing behind a locked door blocking your path.   If pleasure is a hard-wired motivator, it is ESSENTIAL that the new version of you makes you feel good.  

2. Emotions

a)  Boost Emotional State: All negative behaviours, addictions and stuck states begin with a desire for pleasure. Human Beings are motivated towards pleasure, so it is natural to seek the means to elevate/boost your emotional state.

b)  Escape from a Bad Emotional State/Situation: When Human Beings are feeling stressed they are motivated towards escape.  Panic attacks are a symptom of the mind seeking escape.

c)  If you want to quit anything, an essential step is to ‘uncover’ the ‘payoff’. As an example, when someone quits smoking with all good intentions and they are unaware of the ‘significant payoff’, it is the equivalent of them swimming upstream.  Eventually they will tire and the stream will take them back to the beginning. In other words, they have to get emotionally involved, passionate and committed (addicted even) with the greater payoffs for the changes they want to become.

3. Beliefs

You hold the key to empower yourself with positive psychology, encouraging beliefs to unlock any potential for change, personal development, confidence and success. If you fail to meet your expectations or the expectations of others and judge yourself to be a ‘failure’, you will be standing behind a closed door labelled with any number of these:  ‘STUCK, BLOCKED, FEAR, DISAPPOINTMENT, REGRET, GUILT, PRESSURE, ANXIETY, PAIN & SORROW’.   Any preferred change must sync with your beliefs to succeed.  

4.  Guilt

Wherever there is guilt, there is punishment which shows up as self-sabotage.   This can be in the form of seemingly unrelated HEALTH SYMPTOMS AND HOLDING YOURSELF BACK.  You have to give yourself full permission to release guilt, consciously and subconsciously to succeed.

Get in touch with suzi@rapid-health.co.uk to find out if NLP Life Coaching can help you.  +44(0)7836 635233

NLP LIFE COACHING:  A set of 5 x 1 hr sessions/or time equivalent can fast track your results and provide you with the necessary building blocks to EXPAND YOUR POTENTIAL  with a success mindset.

Unless you address your identity, emotions, beliefs and any guilt blocks… progress will be limited, inconsistent and hap-hazardous or not at all.

We are not taught these skills in school, or I certainly wasn’t.  I have persistently studied the most detailed elements of human progress and I am here to provide ONE-TO-ONE Breakthrough Sessions to facilitate rapid-change.

GIFT/BONUS     I record sessions for you to learn and listen to condition your mind with understandings and direction.  I also design and create bespoke hypnosis to condition the learnings.  Insights will be available to you for years to come.

3 Top Habits of Vibrantly Healthy, Happy People

  1. Make Vibrant habits your highest priority and develop the mindset that makes the difference.   “Vibrant health means:  High energy,  relaxed focus, wellbeing, happy feelings, strong, flexible & cardio fit, enthusiastic, generous and alive.”    Planning a balanced diet that includes plenty of raw, fresh colourful fruits, vegetables & salads, lovingly prepared and savoured will boost massive reserves of energy throughout the day, so that you are able to enjoy your time well into the evening.  Apart from including more plant based enzyme rich foods, letting go of any ‘stress habit’ means starting your day off a little earlier with an exercise, meditation or mind focusing routine.   Just as you can train a dog with rewards – you can train your mind in much the same way by associating ‘massive pleasure’ to any new behaviour you want to create.   Tell your mind what you want, not what you don’t want:  “Vibrant health & energy is available to me today.”   WRITE IT DOWN – soak it in.    You can literally rewire your brain to give you what you want in as little as 21 days.   I reward myself with an energy packed breakfast that is simply delicious.    “My favourite treat breakfast includes cherries and sweet berries with a mouthwatering selection of my favourite passion fruits.     I include eating mindfully, savouring each juicy, blissful, naturally sweet mouthful.  With this one action, I am honouring my body, energy and life with immense gratitude.”
  2. Time is your most valuable resource.  Success requires a decision and commitment to taking action. Deciding what is most important for the day and getting it done first, becomes its own reward.   Breaking down bigger goals into smaller managable tasks can break through procrastination.  There are different ways of choosing what to do first.  One method is getting done what you dislike the most – FIRST.   This method releases valuable energy by getting it out of the way.  Success will often include less enjoyable aspects that need to be taken care of, such as a training, studying, presenting, accounting, auditioning, even exercising for some people is a drain…and if you re-train yourself to love your least favourite bits – even better.  You can then move through your day feeling fully focused without any nagging feeling that you should be doing something else.
  3. Whatever you give your attention to grows.  So AWARENESS & INTENTION really is KEY if you want to design your life.  If you genuinely desire vibrant health, happiness, energy and success.  One mindfulness technique I like to share, includes Breath in PEACE, breath out with a SMILE.  In peace…out smile.

I hope you enjoyed my top 3 tips for creating vibrant health, happiness and success with tons more energy.

 

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Can Anxiety be Changed or Improved?

BREATH IN CALM AND BREATH OUT WITH A SMILE – Practice this mindfulness exercise whenever you remember throughout the day & evening for 21 days and notice the change within your body and mind.

Anxiety is a habit of fearing the worst case scenario.   Anxiety arises from a healthy amygdala in your brain scouting for danger to keep you safe.   Unfortunately any underlying fear based belief will fuel anxiety and keep it limiting your quality of life.

Beliefs such as ‘The world is a dangerous place’, or ‘people are not safe’ or ‘I have to always be on guard’  or ‘I’m afraid of humiliation’, ‘looking stupid’ will fuel anxiety and limit a fun-free healthy, happy YOU.

Apart from replacing old beliefs with new empowering beliefs, there are other ways to override the brain’s natural tendency to be negative.

THE MAGIC IN A SMILE   Learn what happens when you smile and why smiling causes happiness.  Apart from relaxing the facial muscles and calming the nervous system, smiling releases neuropeptides (tiny molecules) that allow neurons to communicate.  They facilitate messaging to the whole body and when you smile, the feel good neurotransmitters dopamine, endorphins and serotonin are all released.  This not only relaxes and calms your entire body, but can lower your heart rate and blood pressure.   Endorphins also act as a natural pain reliever – 100% organically without potential side effects.  The more you smile the more effective you are at breaking the brain’s natural tendency to think negatively.  If you smile often enough, you end up rewiring your brain to make positive patterns more often than negative ones. 

LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS  & OUTCOMES  – This includes:  PEOPLE, PLACES, THINGS, LIFE, FEARS, THE FAMILIAR, PAST, EXPECTATIONS…  Yes easier said then done.   Imagine for a moment, if there was a land slide and you found yourself falling off a cliff with rocks.   You attempt to cling onto any great lump of rock that is travelling alongside you.  You are clinging to it for dear life, thinking – ‘I’ve got to hold onto this’.  Well it doesn’t do a thing for you and it’s only making you more anxious and it is only when you realise this, you let go and relax.

Everybody is heading for death, yet we are ALL clinging to things in the hope that we will be safe.  And even though everything is moving, shifting and changing, we attach ourself to things and name all sorts of reasons and responsibilities –  wearing ourselves out gripping onto that rock.

So the wise thing to do is simply let go and relax.  

Suzi Tyler – Breakthroughs: Confidential Non-judgemental ‘in person’: Kent, London & Video Skype

+44(0)7836 635233  Email:  suzi@rapid-health.co.uk

 

Are your Beliefs Sabotaging your Happiness?

If positive, happy feelings create better health, how can positive beliefs also support you? During many client breakthroughs, I have noticed three core beliefs that block happiness. If you rate less than 8 out of 10, you will be harming your own happiness potential…and health.

  1. Deserving: Often concerns about guilt, not good enough, past traumas.  Rate yourself out of 10 – How deserving of ‘happiness’ do you feel? 10 – Yes or 0 – No, I don’t feel worthy & deserving of happiness.
  2. Possibility:  Often concerns about family history, past failures, genetics, nothing works.  It is possible for you to be happy? ~ How true does this feel? 10 – Yes it’s very possible for you to feel happy or 0 – No, it’s impossible.
  3. Safety:  Often concerns men, past experiences, jealousy, expectations.  It is safe for you to be happy? 10 – Yes it is very safe for you to feel happy, or 0 – No, it isn’t safe for you to be happy.

If you rated 5 or lower in any of the above, your beliefs are limiting your happiness.

If your beliefs are sabotaging your happiness, get in touch with Suzi at suzi@rapid-health.co.uk to book a 1-2 hour breakthrough to move forward confidently.  07836 635233   Video Skype: SuziTHealth.

 

 

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3 Quick Tips to Energise your Life

Vibrant Energy Lifestyle

Choose one of your favourite tips to energise your life:

1. Declutter your mind by listing three things you plan to achieve the following day.  Everything else, list under the headings ‘ To Delegate’ or ‘Universe’.

2. Breakthrough procrastination by breaking down large projects into small manageable parts and associating pleasure with anything you don’t want to do.

3. Get very clear about why you want to do something because these are your motivators.  To avoid inner conflict, make sure your desires are aligned with your values and beliefs.  

4.  Only have three tasks on your to-do list to inspire a feeling of ease and look forward to the satisfaction of achievement/accomplishment of finishing and completing these three tasks.

5.  Buy a present for someone (it can be anything little) and really savour the GIVING. Science has proven white blood cells increase when you give – so giving really is receiving with a boosted immune system for YOU too!

6. Take more oxygen into your whole body by breathing deeper into your diaphram instead of shallow breathing into your chest. Oxygen is energy – so BREATH mindfully and deeply. Accompany your breathing with some stretching or other exercise and you will be giving yourself a boost of endorphins that will give you that vibrant energy lifestyle!

7. Go for a ‘mindful’ walk – which means leaving your worries behind.  Each step you take can be mindful, deliberate and free.

8. Release stress by deliberately caring more about your energy and less about perfection.  You can reach for excellence when your energy is lined up with food feelings.  If you are feeling conflicted or overwhelmed, get help with short cut strategies to release stress, fatigue and increase vibrant energy.  In addition, make sure you are eating a selection of fruits, vegetables and superfoods, as well as a few of your favourite treats. If you are looking for easier ways to create a healthier, happier more fulfilled you – find out how by calling Suzi on 07836 635233 or email suzi@rapid-health.co.uk.

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