Category: Confidence coaching

Suzi Tyler, Master Hypnotherapist, CNHC & BIH Certified

With the right professional, you are in very safe hands.  Always look for a Hypnotherapist who is CNHC and BIH government recommended.  This seal of approval validates the highest Code of Conduct requirement and ensures your practitioner is fully trained and up-to-date with Continuous Professional Development.

Why Hypnosis?  Hypnosis is a powerful short-cut skill that can instruct your body and mind to unlock your potential by challenging your fears.   It can be used to explore reasons for certain behaviours, blocks and hidden conflicts.  Once understood, intentions can be realigned and success achieved.  Hypnosis simply utilises the alpha, theta and delta brainwaves to access the subconscious mind.  Suzi records hypnosis sessions and guided meditations to condition the mind with new ways of thinking and feeling.

Sleep Issues & Fatigue  In addition, if your energy flags, or you’re struggling to switch off at night, a 20 min hypnosis or meditation can create a calm focus and away you go, refreshed, relaxed or alert.   If 80-95% of your behaviours are automatic programs and unconscious patterns, you can understand how much of a short cut hypnosis can be to create a new pattern in this highly receptive brainwave state.

Happiness, Confidence & Self esteem   Scientific studies show that 90% of happiness does NOT depend on external circumstances but on the way your brain processes whatever is going on.  Therefore 90% of how up or down you feel is determined by what you make of it in your head.   If your inner self talk is kind, encouraging and supportive, happy feelings of optimism and enthusiasm will become available to you.

You can find out if hypnosis is suitable for you by calling Suzi on 07836 635233   suzi@rapid-health.co.uk

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Can Anxiety be Changed or Improved?

BREATH IN CALM AND BREATH OUT WITH A SMILE – Practice this mindfulness exercise whenever you remember throughout the day & evening for 21 days and notice the change within your body and mind.

Anxiety is a habit of fearing the worst case scenario.   Anxiety arises from a healthy amygdala in your brain scouting for danger to keep you safe.   Unfortunately any underlying fear based belief will fuel anxiety and keep it limiting your quality of life.

Beliefs such as ‘The world is a dangerous place’, or ‘people are not safe’ or ‘I have to always be on guard’  or ‘I’m afraid of humiliation’, ‘looking stupid’ will fuel anxiety and limit a fun-free healthy, happy YOU.

Apart from replacing old beliefs with new empowering beliefs, there are other ways to override the brain’s natural tendency to be negative.

THE MAGIC IN A SMILE   Learn what happens when you smile and why smiling causes happiness.  Apart from relaxing the facial muscles and calming the nervous system, smiling releases neuropeptides (tiny molecules) that allow neurons to communicate.  They facilitate messaging to the whole body and when you smile, the feel good neurotransmitters dopamine, endorphins and serotonin are all released.  This not only relaxes and calms your entire body, but can lower your heart rate and blood pressure.   Endorphins also act as a natural pain reliever – 100% organically without potential side effects.  The more you smile the more effective you are at breaking the brain’s natural tendency to think negatively.  If you smile often enough, you end up rewiring your brain to make positive patterns more often than negative ones. 

LETTING GO OF ATTACHMENTS  & OUTCOMES  – This includes:  PEOPLE, PLACES, THINGS, LIFE, FEARS, THE FAMILIAR, PAST, EXPECTATIONS…  Yes easier said then done.   Imagine for a moment, if there was a land slide and you found yourself falling off a cliff with rocks.   You attempt to cling onto any great lump of rock that is travelling alongside you.  You are clinging to it for dear life, thinking – ‘I’ve got to hold onto this’.  Well it doesn’t do a thing for you and it’s only making you more anxious and it is only when you realise this, you let go and relax.

Everybody is heading for death, yet we are ALL clinging to things in the hope that we will be safe.  And even though everything is moving, shifting and changing, we attach ourself to things and name all sorts of reasons and responsibilities –  wearing ourselves out gripping onto that rock.

So the wise thing to do is simply let go and relax.  

Suzi Tyler – Breakthroughs: Confidential Non-judgemental ‘in person’: Kent, London & Video Skype

+44(0)7836 635233  Email:  suzi@rapid-health.co.uk

 

Top 10 Fears that Block your Potential

Unlock Your Potential 

Anxiety is a fear based habit that blocks your potential.  If you long for a calm, confident mindset you will want to make peace with any or all of the following (in no specific order):

Top 10 Fears that block success

  1.  Health anxiety (fear of death/pain/immobility).
  2.  Fear of failure, making a serious mistake.
  3.  Fearing loss or rejection.
  4.  Fearing embarrassment, looking or feeling stupid.
  5.  Fearing being judged with dislike or disapproval.
  6.  Fearing not being enough, lovable or deserving.
  7.  Fearing being different and being found out.
  8.  Fearing disappointment.
  9.  Fear of the unknown, uncertainty.
  10.  Fearing being out of control.

Everyone can create new habits that support them.   Anxiety is a destructive habit that becomes a vicious cycle,  but luckily habits can be changed.  Everyone can choose an open mind with fresh perspectives that inspire confident, calm success.

“If you have an anxiety problem, get in touch to find out how I can help you.  Suzi” x

Call:  +44(0)7836 635233

Email:  suzi@rapid-health.co.uk

 

 

 

10 Tips to Power your Self-Belief & Self Esteem

Do you suffer with low self-worth or low self-esteem?

  1.  Criticism withers you.  Praise builds you up.  If you are hard on yourself or perfectionist you may frequently feel you are ‘not enough’.  Spend the next 21 days repeating over in your mind  “I am enough”   Write it on your mirror, everywhere to allow it to really sink in.  And don’t worry if you don’t believe it, with sufficient determination and repetition, your unconscious mind will eventually believe!
  2. Decide what you want and why?  Get really clear, as your ‘whys’ are your motivators that inspire you into action.
  3. Every morning choose one thing to appreciate about yourself, so that at the end of the year you have a long list of positives that feed your self esteem.
  4.  Reward yourself every day with something enjoyable to look forward to, such as a delicious breakfast after an early morning workout.
  5.  Forgive past mistakes and take forward only the positive learnings.
  6. Take the focus off yourself.   Look outside your current difficulties and explore how you can make a positive contribution to someone else, your wider community or world.   You can grow your self worth super fast with this powerful action.
  7. Become aware of your self talk.  Make the pictures and words you use in your mind encouraging.
  8. Flush out those pesky limiting beliefs and replace with perky pleasurable ones instead.
  9. If you feel you are unappreciated, give out appreciation even more.  Appreciating the best in others can encourage others to appreciate the best in you.
  10. Take constructive criticism practically but not personally.  Reject destructive criticism and use ‘constructive’ criticism to improve.

“If you suspect your beliefs are holding you back, get in touch for a brief chat to find out how I can help you. Suzi”

 

 

Confidence Tips

How to Feel More Confident

I am not talking about a fake confident veneer, just a natural confidence that feels real for you.  Aside from confidence feeling pleasurable, it is also very attractive.

1. When you let go of comparing yourself unfavourably to others…you will instantly feel happier and more confident.

2. If you focus too much on yourself, it can make you overly self conscious.   I am suggesting you accept whatever you cannot change and just get on with enjoying life.

3. Just a friendly smile and a few thoughtful acts of kindness will increase your confidence.

4. Looking for ways you can provide better service or quality for your clients, family or friends will improve how you feel about yourself.

5. Sometimes it is necessary to make sacrifices short term to secure the long term success.

6. Deciding not to think and speak all the negatives of your day…week….life  will improve your confidence.  Most people prefer to be around positive people because their energy is energising.

7. Do things for others because you want to – not because you need their approval.  This shift in deliberate focus will have a massive impact on your ability to feel confident.

8.  “Confidence inspires confidence. Confidence arises out of a congruency with action towards one’s highest values. If you are thinking, acting and feeling in line with your highest values, you will be inspired and present yourself with confidence. This one thing is the most attractive quality in a person.” -John Demartini

What is your deepest desire for your life & career?   What is your biggest challenge or block to achieving it?     If you want to fast track your confidence Contact Suzi for a FREE 20 MINUTE  consultation

Call Suzi on 07836 635233   Confidence Coaching & Hypnotherapy in Birchington-on-Sea, Whitstable, Kent and London W1.

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